In our day to day life we talk about a lot of things. But have you ever realized that a lot of things talk about us too? Ok, let me make myself sound simpler.
It is a well known fact the kind of clothes we wear tell volumes about us. That is why each one of us spend hours while building our wardrobe(especially girls). But sometimes wardrobe is slightly deceiving because few of us tend to choose something which is just in or something which is just to impress someone. So it is not necessary that always one's style statement actually reveals one's persona, but most of the times it does. A simple person chooses to wear basic shades with basic prints whereas a loud person tries to fit into funky stuffs. People who really do not bother about what the world thinks about them will be completely comfortable choosing even bizarre outfits. People who choose colorful and bright shades are usually joyful in nature. Piercings and tattoes represent a lot about one's personality. A very conventional person would be totally uncomfortable filling one's body with many piercings or putting many tattoes whereas a total freak would find it cool to have a couple of piercings/ tattoes.
How you carry yourself/ how you interact: A shy and coy girl in a small crowd can be identified within seconds from the way she talks or the way she holds herself. A guy with his battery fully charged with confidence can also be noted within minutes. A graceful girl showing a lot of poise definitely represents a very polished nature. A fun loving fellow cannot hide his vibrant nature. An intellect would make his mark the way he/she expresses his points. An artistic person can be easily be identified with his/ her gestures and the way they find beauty in everything they see. Faking one's persona when you interact with someone is pretty much a hardwork which usually fails to work. So I guess it is quite easy to understand someone's nature by observing the way in which he/she interacts with others and the way they carry themselves.
Next is a totally different category upon which I've less expertise. So I'll be a bit careful here. I've seen a lot of guys who are very much enthusistic about gaming. I guess guys who love gaming have a lot in common. Probably a geeky nature or a more sophiscated way of thinking. I guess the second point sounds better. Game-lovers usually are pretty much sharp and intense thinkers. They have more logical solutions and think/ act faster. Not seen many girls who love gaming so no comments on them.
Music! Calm and quiet people usually stick on to soothing melodies. Cool dudes/dudettes love peppy, rocking music. Curious souls who think in many different ways (like me) enjoy all genres of music. I'm pretty much a curious person and I think in many many directions. Also I tend to listen to a wide variety of music most of them making absolutely no sense to me (like most of my thinking really does not make any sense!). It really doesnt matter to me whether I'm listening to a devotional song, a Bollywood number, a Hollywood track, a super hit pop album, regional music or a complete flop music.
Next is cooking. The way a person cooks can say a lot about him/her. But I've a point to make here. It is something I've read somewhere to which I totally agree. A good cook with the way of he/she adds the right ingredients represents his/her mastery in the art of cooking. But when it comes to how much it represents him/her as a person, it is the kitchen which speaks. The kitchen he/she works on and how the cook leaves it after a well cooked meal speaks a lot about the cook's personality. Not sure how many agree with me. As per me, a cook can be called as an awesome cook if the food prepared by him/her is magnificient + the kitchen and surroundings maintained by him/her is super clean. A wonderful cook would never leave his/her workplace messy.
A person with a beautiful handwriting is supposed to be well mannered one as well. Exceptions like Gandhiji are there though. A well organized house also represents a well organized mind. A highly competitive person also tends to explore a lot with his/her gadgets whereas a simple person who is comfortable with minimal things usually is comfortable with a basic mobile or a basic watch or basic computer. This is my observation till date. It holds good to me too.
Oops, how can I forget my own field! Talking about myself, I'm an IT-an and I have done quite a decent job and have spent a lot of time in my career doing coding and so let me tell a few things from my view point. I love doing coding work; especially playing around with queries. And this is what I've felt. Making a query is an art. When a neatly designed query is created, with the right amount of spacing and tabbing with good amount of comments (of course with good performance), you have created a beautiful piece of art. It has happened with me many a times that I make a beautiful piece of code and when I look at it after a period of time, I feel like saying "Oh dear, I just love you". What I'm trying to say here is that a well organized piece of code developed by a person represents a well organzied way of living (at least professionally). Writing a piece of code which is completely untidy is bad manners according to me!
There are a lot more stuffs which scream about our persona. Probably readers can add to it in the comments section.
Good bye for now.
It is a well known fact the kind of clothes we wear tell volumes about us. That is why each one of us spend hours while building our wardrobe(especially girls). But sometimes wardrobe is slightly deceiving because few of us tend to choose something which is just in or something which is just to impress someone. So it is not necessary that always one's style statement actually reveals one's persona, but most of the times it does. A simple person chooses to wear basic shades with basic prints whereas a loud person tries to fit into funky stuffs. People who really do not bother about what the world thinks about them will be completely comfortable choosing even bizarre outfits. People who choose colorful and bright shades are usually joyful in nature. Piercings and tattoes represent a lot about one's personality. A very conventional person would be totally uncomfortable filling one's body with many piercings or putting many tattoes whereas a total freak would find it cool to have a couple of piercings/ tattoes.
How you carry yourself/ how you interact: A shy and coy girl in a small crowd can be identified within seconds from the way she talks or the way she holds herself. A guy with his battery fully charged with confidence can also be noted within minutes. A graceful girl showing a lot of poise definitely represents a very polished nature. A fun loving fellow cannot hide his vibrant nature. An intellect would make his mark the way he/she expresses his points. An artistic person can be easily be identified with his/ her gestures and the way they find beauty in everything they see. Faking one's persona when you interact with someone is pretty much a hardwork which usually fails to work. So I guess it is quite easy to understand someone's nature by observing the way in which he/she interacts with others and the way they carry themselves.
Next is a totally different category upon which I've less expertise. So I'll be a bit careful here. I've seen a lot of guys who are very much enthusistic about gaming. I guess guys who love gaming have a lot in common. Probably a geeky nature or a more sophiscated way of thinking. I guess the second point sounds better. Game-lovers usually are pretty much sharp and intense thinkers. They have more logical solutions and think/ act faster. Not seen many girls who love gaming so no comments on them.
Music! Calm and quiet people usually stick on to soothing melodies. Cool dudes/dudettes love peppy, rocking music. Curious souls who think in many different ways (like me) enjoy all genres of music. I'm pretty much a curious person and I think in many many directions. Also I tend to listen to a wide variety of music most of them making absolutely no sense to me (like most of my thinking really does not make any sense!). It really doesnt matter to me whether I'm listening to a devotional song, a Bollywood number, a Hollywood track, a super hit pop album, regional music or a complete flop music.
Next is cooking. The way a person cooks can say a lot about him/her. But I've a point to make here. It is something I've read somewhere to which I totally agree. A good cook with the way of he/she adds the right ingredients represents his/her mastery in the art of cooking. But when it comes to how much it represents him/her as a person, it is the kitchen which speaks. The kitchen he/she works on and how the cook leaves it after a well cooked meal speaks a lot about the cook's personality. Not sure how many agree with me. As per me, a cook can be called as an awesome cook if the food prepared by him/her is magnificient + the kitchen and surroundings maintained by him/her is super clean. A wonderful cook would never leave his/her workplace messy.
A person with a beautiful handwriting is supposed to be well mannered one as well. Exceptions like Gandhiji are there though. A well organized house also represents a well organized mind. A highly competitive person also tends to explore a lot with his/her gadgets whereas a simple person who is comfortable with minimal things usually is comfortable with a basic mobile or a basic watch or basic computer. This is my observation till date. It holds good to me too.
Oops, how can I forget my own field! Talking about myself, I'm an IT-an and I have done quite a decent job and have spent a lot of time in my career doing coding and so let me tell a few things from my view point. I love doing coding work; especially playing around with queries. And this is what I've felt. Making a query is an art. When a neatly designed query is created, with the right amount of spacing and tabbing with good amount of comments (of course with good performance), you have created a beautiful piece of art. It has happened with me many a times that I make a beautiful piece of code and when I look at it after a period of time, I feel like saying "Oh dear, I just love you". What I'm trying to say here is that a well organized piece of code developed by a person represents a well organzied way of living (at least professionally). Writing a piece of code which is completely untidy is bad manners according to me!
There are a lot more stuffs which scream about our persona. Probably readers can add to it in the comments section.
Good bye for now.
reminds me of few "third group " emails that I had read sometime back in Mangalore ;);)
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